Sunday, May 25, 2025

Preference is not Being Intimidated - by Vox Day

 One theme that is relentlessly pushed by the female-centric mainstream narrative is that men are not approaching women, less interested in dating women, and uninterested in marrying women due to the fact that they are somehow intimidated by the magnificent radiance that blinds them when they gaze upon the sublime glory of modern strong, independent, self-confident women......

......First, the solution proposed is comical....
......Second, this is an obvious lie. Women are neither independent nor self-confident. They might maintain a brave front, but underneath the hard shell of every self-styled “strong independent woman” is a frightened mass of neuroses that is terrified of being rejected, or worse, initially accepted then abandoned, by a man. So the entire frame is constructed upon a false foundation......

......Fifth, female solipsism means that women are intrinsically incapable of grasping that men’s opinions and feelings exist in a space that is entirely distinct from themselves, and take absolutely no account of their own opinions and feelings. Indeed, the very idea that a man fails to factor her situation into his feelings is offensive to women, despite the fact that men do not do that, and moreover, have an absolute right to their own emotional independence.

It’s really not that hard. Most men, and pretty much all good men, have no desire to intrude where they are not wanted. So when women signal, intentionally or not, that they find men unnecessary and undesirable, those men are not only going to refrain from expressing any interest in them, they are going to seek to avoid them entirely......