Low-status men need to get off the Internet.
Delete your dating app. Go to the gym. Go to the store. Go to the freaking hospital, for crying out loud. You can, and you will, meet women who are in your league who are willing to give you a shot, but you have to a) talk to them and b) take your shot with them.
And before you try to tell me this is impossible, no, it absolutely isn’t. And before you try to tell me that I don’t know what I’m talking about, yes, I absolutely do. Yes, I am a high-status Sigma male, but I am also, as my critics seem to glory in needlessly informing me, old and bald.
A side note for the young: you never, ever, have to remind anyone that they’re getting old. Because one of the things that you don’t know yet about getting older is the amount of physical pain involved. You discover your body hurts for absolutely no reason; somehow it’s possible to hurt yourself worse while sleeping through the night than making it to the finals in a karate tournament when you’re in your twenties.
Even so, I have absolutely no problem getting a phone number on behalf of the young men of my acquaintance whether I am at the grocery store or the hospital. Now, as a good Delta, you’re always worried about how it will look when you talk to a girl or you’re trying to wait for exactly the right moment… so stop and think for a moment about how potentially creepy it could look for a man approaching his sixth decade asking a pretty young woman in her mid-20s if she’s on the market or not?
And yet, it isn’t, not if you’re sincere, straightforward, and genuinely lacking in any ulterior motives. And sincere and straightforward is squarely within the Delta comfort zone. So get off social media, start taking the risks and start taking the shots.
SIGMA: hey, do you have a boyfriend or anything?
PRETTY NURSE: Um, no…
SIGMA: (shows picture on phone) Want this guy to give you a call? He’s single.
PRETTY NURSE: (looks closely at picture) Well… actually, yeah… yeah, that would be all right. Do you want my number or my Insta?
SIGMA: (hands over phone) whatever, just put it in here and I’ll pass it on to him.
So the women are out there, I promise you. They are literally sitting around waiting for you to approach them. And as long as you don’t try to outkick your coverage, sooner or later, you will get positive responses.
So stop moaning about the inequities of black mirror world and get in the real game already!