A reader in the Bay Area wonders what
his options are:
I
went to church today and I've been worried for a long time. There have been
signs. The original church was extremely intellectual, led by a couple men I
respect who learned Greek and Aramaic personally, research like none other and
present the Bible in a way I'd never seen in regular church services. Two years
ago one of those men was forced out, though I didn't see it at the time because
he "left for a new position in another church". He was replaced by
young, hipster types leading everything. The lead pastor, whom I also respect,
has started backing off, only preaching once a month or so, doing other things
while those younger "hipper" people take over.
A few months ago they started having a woman lead services. They brought in and merged with a chuch from a black area, brought in a lot more minority populations.
I noticed my wife, who's heavily involved in those small groups, started getting really passionate about Good Samaritan type projects and we had a few fights about how I was saying they were scams, as it was a lot of raising money type of deals.
Today it culminated where they actually brought in one of the 49ers who is protesting with Kaepernick and did a sermon on how the "disciples were diverse", and he gave a shpiel about how him and Kaepernick are going to "change the community, because cops can do better, we can do better." Full SJW lie with zero biblical basis. They opened with a video about multi-racial couples and talking about race and probably mentioned diversity 50 times over the course of the sermon.
I walked out during the 49er bit. Now my wife is very very heavily involved in the smaller groups of the church. I grew up with a number of people so the prospect of leaving is like cutting off an arm. What do I do? Is leaving the only thing I can do?
A few months ago they started having a woman lead services. They brought in and merged with a chuch from a black area, brought in a lot more minority populations.
I noticed my wife, who's heavily involved in those small groups, started getting really passionate about Good Samaritan type projects and we had a few fights about how I was saying they were scams, as it was a lot of raising money type of deals.
Today it culminated where they actually brought in one of the 49ers who is protesting with Kaepernick and did a sermon on how the "disciples were diverse", and he gave a shpiel about how him and Kaepernick are going to "change the community, because cops can do better, we can do better." Full SJW lie with zero biblical basis. They opened with a video about multi-racial couples and talking about race and probably mentioned diversity 50 times over the course of the sermon.
I walked out during the 49er bit. Now my wife is very very heavily involved in the smaller groups of the church. I grew up with a number of people so the prospect of leaving is like cutting off an arm. What do I do? Is leaving the only thing I can do?
Yes. It's time to leave. Do not discuss
it with your wife. It's not something to negotiate; either you are the
spiritual leader of the family or she is. Leave and find a new church. She may
follow your lead, or she may not, but that's her responsibility, not yours.
Your responsibility is to lead the way. And the church you describe no longer serves the Lord, it serves the spirit of the world.
You were worried because your spirit was picking up on the false spirit that entered the church. Now your mind knows what your spirit already knew. The fact that the good pastor was forced out is a strong indicator that you are dealing with some knowingly evil people here, it's not a series of unfortunate coincidences.
Your responsibility is to lead the way. And the church you describe no longer serves the Lord, it serves the spirit of the world.
You were worried because your spirit was picking up on the false spirit that entered the church. Now your mind knows what your spirit already knew. The fact that the good pastor was forced out is a strong indicator that you are dealing with some knowingly evil people here, it's not a series of unfortunate coincidences.
