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Sunday, May 10, 2026

Looksmaxxing is Real Life - by Vox Day - Sigma Game

 ....Women decide if they are sexually attracted to a man in three seconds or less. That’s it. That’s all the time you’ve got. And not only that, but women do not find abstract concepts such as loyalty and goodness to be attractive nor are they attracted to more complicated elements such as intelligence or potential.

Women are attracted to four things.

  1. Looks

  2. Fame

  3. Vibe/Aura

  4. Money

There is very little a young man can do about items 2, 3, or 4. He can try to fake one of them, especially 4 in the very short term with the help of social media, but it’s nearly impossible to pull off any of the three over even a short period of time like a week. And each of these things need to be solidly established before ever meeting the woman; once a woman has an initial impression of a man it is very, very, very difficult for her to adjust it for better or for worse, and it’s much easier for her to lose attraction to a man than develop it.....


.....Excellence is the gift a young man gives to himself. Character is the gift he gives to society. Attractiveness is the public face he presents to the opposite sex. Never confuse these three very different things.....

https://sigmagame.substack.com/p/looksmaxxing-is-real-life?publication_id=2265630&utm_campaign=email-post-title&r=y7h5a&utm_medium=email 

...So I’m not saying don’t pursue excellence or to refrain from developing moral character, I’m simply saying don’t commit the category error of thinking that doing so has anything whatsoever to do with attracting women.