https://thefeministturnedhousewife.substack.com/p/used-for-nothing-the-true-legacy
There is a cost to sexual “freedom.” And it is almost always paid by the woman.
I don’t want another girl to pay that price. I don’t want her to mistake attraction for love, attention for affection, sex for worth. I don’t want her to believe that giving her body is how she earns commitment. Because it’s not. Commitment should come first. That is the ancient pattern. That is the protective order that has always existed. Because women are the ones who get pregnant. Women are the ones whose hearts are most deeply tied to intimacy. Women are the ones who were meant to be pursued, honored, cherished.
What we’ve created instead is a world where girls sleep with men they barely know. A world where validation comes from likes and OnlyFans tips and half-dressed photos. A world where sexuality is loud, constant, and empty. And we’re all just here pretending it’s fine.
But it’s not fine. It’s not working. And I think deep down, every woman knows that.
And I will keep saying it, for every girl who has ever cried herself to sleep not knowing why. For every woman who gave away something precious because no one told her it was precious. For every soul that aches without understanding the root of the wound.
This isn’t freedom, this isn’t peace, this isn’t what you are worth.
It’s famine.
And it’s time we told the truth.
